There is nothing wrong in being SELFISH!!!

How many of us can really boldly say no to certain favours??? Few of us alone have the so "selfish gene" with us!!!!Is is wrong to be selfish!!!!At times really not!!!!!!And to certain people its every inch worthy to be selfish!!

People who help always do it...and there is always a gang who royally make use of them! And finally end up abusing them!

I too have faced situations where all the moral science in your school days comes over flowing in your mind and u try to explicitly help out people..."trying to place ourselves in their shoes " and understand their situation and help them....not only many of them really realise it....they jus properly make use of all your morality and jus wag a bye as soon as their things are done!!!
Even if your values are so high.....never expect back if u help...cos if u expect back and u r nt properly reciprocated thats fine!Rather than getting comments like" So what u have helped I have no time to think over it "That sucks!!!!!

So a couple of instances have thought me the wonderful lesson of being selfish!!!I have these days learn the habit of politely saying a no...You can never be good solu to every one atleast!!!But im definitely not selfish with everyone...And i never ever can forget the help one has done to me!!!Gratitude is a gene quality i always want to be instilled!!!!

Another issue is that Money matters.....yaa" MOney REally MAtters"...My parents have always trained me in this.I can let a penny of my money in others packet but i can never have a penny of someone else s in mine!In fact I don even accept gifts if i feel a person is not that close to me( but I demand it from the ones I m really close)!!!Even today if i go out with my friends just for a get together or a party(definitely no treat)...one of us pay the cash and immidiately divide the money and settle of every single rupee then and there!(I donno at times its awkward but none of us mind it that way)....Even if its common gifts we share the same way!!!In this way i have felt our friendship has grown more stronger and misundertandings never comeout due to these silly issues....( as in most cases money breaks frienship!!!!!I cant afford to lose anyone for this sake!!!


So here is a test for u!!!

How selfish are you?

"Sincere forgiveness isn't colored with expectations that the other person apologize or change.Don't worry whether or not they finally understand you. Love them and release them.

Wishful Hopes My Love......

I don’t want to be the ex,
but your everlasting love.
I wish not to be the other,
but be the one love for you.
I pray you don’t make me over,
but your everlasting boy.

I wish you to be my future,
and not my past love.
I hope for a great love,
instead of a broken heart.
I yearn to be a proud man,
when I have you by my side.



My life will be gratified,
if I create life with you.
My heart will be content,
if you touched me with yours.
My being will be completed,
if you're there to fulfil these hopes.
.........Rudra

*******Thinking Of You *********

Just sitting here and thinking,

Thinking my thoughts of you

Dreaming of howthings would be

If you were right here too.

I hope that things are going

The way that you had planned

I only wish that you were here

And I could hold your hand

I dream of being with you

Of being by your side

Of waking up beside you

Of love that we won't hide

I hope one day that you'll be more

Than just a dream at night

That I can bring you happiness

And love with all my might

But until then, I'm here alone

There's nothing else to do

Than dream of you and count the days

Until I'm there with you

~~~~The Heart and I ~~~~~

I didn’t want to fall,
but the heart did just that.
I wished to be a friend,
but this heart needed more.
I can control the whole of me,
except the heart in me.

I wish not for these feelings,
but this heart yearns for it.
I feel more than I should,
and battling with the pink flesh,
is one fight I am loosing.
I’m so into you,
whether I want it or not.

If I were only me,
we could have a chance.
But this heart is hurting,
and can’t take it anymore.
The end of us had to come,
for I listened to me,
daunting to gamble with the heart.
The winner being me,
with a ticking denied heart.

"To love and win is the best thing. To love and lose the next best."
--William M. Thackeray